Make the places adults keep coming back to.
We're a small, remote team building communities for adults. If you want your work to matter to the people who use it, you might belong here.
Why we exist
Adults have been stuck with platforms that treat them as a liability, mislead them and cut every corner they can. We saw room for something better.
Real Adult Media started from a simple belief: adults deserve communities built with care, run honestly, and made to last.
We're small on purpose. We build focused communities for people who refuse to settle.
We're not here to disrupt for the sake of it. We're here because adults deserve a company that puts them first. Period.
What we believe
Members first
Every decision starts with one question: is this better for the people inside?
Radical transparency
No hidden fees, no surprise policy changes, no doublespeak. We say what we mean.
Quality over quantity
We don’t chase trends or cut corners. Places people love take real craft.
Move fast, stay focused
A small team that ships. Clear ownership, no bureaucracy, no endless meetings.
Challenge the norm
Adult life online is full of bad actors and broken promises. We’re here to prove it can be better.
Respect, always
For members, for partners, for each other. Dignity is not optional.
Compliance first
Card networks, processors, regulations. Doing it right protects members and keeps the lights on.
Own your work
No micromanagement. You make the call, and you stand behind it.
Long-term thinking
We’re building for the next decade, not the next quarter.
How we work
Remote, everywhere. The best people aren't all in one city, so neither are we.
We write things down, share context generously and respect each other's time zones. Meetings are for working together, not status updates.
We ship. Real feedback from real members beats months of polishing in private.
- Fully remote team
- Flexible hours
- Competitive equity packages
- Health, dental & vision
- Unlimited PTO
- Home office budget
- Conference & learning budget
- Annual team retreats
Open roles
Growth Marketing LeadTell the world about places adults actually want to be.Remote
What you'll do- Own how people find our communities, from social and partnerships to campaigns and launches.
- Grow realkink.men, and launch pup.space and furrow.social.
- Work with advertisers and partners on campaigns that respect our members.
- Measure what works, and drop what doesn’t.
You might be- You’ve marketed adult, queer or community brands, and you know the rules platforms play by.
- You write well and you have taste.
- You like small teams and don’t need a playbook.
Community Events LeadBring our communities off the screen and into the room.Remote
What you'll do- Plan and run events with partner venues, clubs and organizers.
- Build an events calendar members look forward to.
- Keep every event safe, welcoming and well run.
- Bring sponsors and partners in, and keep them coming back.
You might be- You’ve run nightlife, kink or community events, and you know the people in the scene.
- You stay organized under pressure and calm at 2am.
- You care that everyone gets home feeling good about the night.
Don't see your role? We're always glad to meet exceptional people. Tell us who you are, what you've built, and why this work matters to you.
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